tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post3050202208941119342..comments2023-09-27T07:39:16.834-04:00Comments on No Matter How Small: Too many thingsAureliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-39232708121146476192008-01-27T19:14:00.000-05:002008-01-27T19:14:00.000-05:00I love you too.I love you too.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-23584216732000781422008-01-26T22:36:00.000-05:002008-01-26T22:36:00.000-05:00I have been struggling with similiar thoughts & fe...I have been struggling with similiar thoughts & feelings. My dirty little secret, I have visions of my daughter dying some horrible death, I slip on the stairs while holding her, I accidentally drop her off my balcony, she slips out of my wrap while walking accross a bridge. I am literally plagued with it. I don't allow anyone to wear sock feet while taking her upstairs, she is not allowed on the balcony and I hold onto her tight while walking across bridges. The thing is these visions are so real. I still haven't come to terms with the fact I have a real live baby. I am in counselling for it right now, it helps, but I am not sure when or how long it takes for it to all 'go away'. <BR/><BR/>The wounds become scars and the scars are for life.<BR/><BR/>Congrats on the pregnancy, I know I am late, been out of the blog reading for a bit.Darchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16391850933760923240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-39742092535316340632008-01-25T17:50:00.000-05:002008-01-25T17:50:00.000-05:00like many above have said, it can still get you. t...like many above have said, it can still get you. thinking of you...you will get through the next 20 weeks.wannabe momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00975160438211356349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-69335145966743012112008-01-25T11:58:00.000-05:002008-01-25T11:58:00.000-05:00I want to thank you, thank you, thank you for your...I want to thank you, thank you, thank you for your advice on keeping my uterus as healthy as possible in this pregnancy. In 50 comments, you were the only one who told me what I needed to hear. I now have a call in to my OB to find out if she wants me to start taking anything.<BR/><BR/>In reference to your post--I don't think I will ever get used to seeing pregnant women, especially when I'm not expecting it.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08514262423005456861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-81987681560194702332008-01-25T00:43:00.000-05:002008-01-25T00:43:00.000-05:00I think I am starting to be that woman. The one w...I think I am starting to be that woman. The one who seems to have it together, who can talk about my loss intellectually and be a support to others. But if someone could look inside my head, and my heart, they would know that it still gets me. Pregnant bellies, twins, new babies... sometimes it is just for a second. But it still gets me.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05528541804521203406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-87465310130748522092008-01-24T21:23:00.000-05:002008-01-24T21:23:00.000-05:00((hug))((hug))Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18384206429432741119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-36344165531708181422008-01-24T14:49:00.000-05:002008-01-24T14:49:00.000-05:00love you tooI believe you when you say it's never ...love you too<BR/><BR/>I believe you when you say it's never totally better.Beruriahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07171541078529309991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-71635787790008565622008-01-24T13:35:00.000-05:002008-01-24T13:35:00.000-05:00Lovely blog. Gonna figure out how to work it into ...Lovely blog. Gonna figure out how to work it into mine.Antonia Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06265192250250664131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-74803260585498179162008-01-24T11:51:00.000-05:002008-01-24T11:51:00.000-05:00All of your blogged words comfort me. Don't worry...All of your blogged words comfort me. Don't worry hun, I made it through and your blog was on my mind and helping the whole way. If you could do it, so could I. :)G$https://www.blogger.com/profile/05010373805685335151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-38243109572653609592008-01-24T09:47:00.000-05:002008-01-24T09:47:00.000-05:00Love you too.Love you too.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01160908955133304449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-16378186877801513682008-01-24T06:02:00.000-05:002008-01-24T06:02:00.000-05:00These things can always creep up on you. BeaThese things can always creep up on you. <BR/><BR/>BeaBeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-78085320272959286362008-01-23T23:12:00.000-05:002008-01-23T23:12:00.000-05:00I don't even know what to type. I hope that you fi...I don't even know what to type. I hope that you find comfort in talking to others who have the same experience. You don't always have to be the one comforting.Ashley Benzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06710248898913235280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-7909261848962243972008-01-23T22:02:00.000-05:002008-01-23T22:02:00.000-05:00I had come to this conclusion some time ago-- that...I had come to this conclusion some time ago-- that this will never end. Oddly, it's comforting, since it frees me from thinking about when am I supposed to be "over" it. <BR/>And in the meantime, I get all sorts of stupid thoughts, like that getting locked up on bedrest right around starting to show sounds like a dandy idea to me-- this way not only would I escape stupid questions but I couldn't possibly hurt an infertile or a deadbabymama. You know? <BR/><BR/>Hang on, ok?Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.com