tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post9148668677995166800..comments2023-09-27T07:39:16.834-04:00Comments on No Matter How Small: Ten years ago todayAureliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-22285300687499458142008-09-09T10:18:00.000-04:002008-09-09T10:18:00.000-04:00You're in my thoughts. And what you said -- about ...You're in my thoughts. And what you said -- about feeling like it happened to someone else -- is exactly how I feel.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10685766216611639434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-3096761487185774922008-09-07T18:06:00.000-04:002008-09-07T18:06:00.000-04:00oh aurelia, lovely woman, I am so sorry for your l...oh aurelia, lovely woman, I am so sorry for your loss.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-17507935507067267022008-09-06T12:15:00.000-04:002008-09-06T12:15:00.000-04:00You know that we all wish we could offer more than...You know that we all wish we could offer more than just virtual support, whether it was today or ten years ago. But I hope you know we are here to listen anytime.DDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17864339996118337420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-27956410826611983802008-09-06T06:35:00.000-04:002008-09-06T06:35:00.000-04:00I missed the day, too. So sorry for these anniver...I missed the day, too. So sorry for these anniversaries of yours.<BR/><BR/>BeaBeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-40593611032098982772008-09-05T16:51:00.000-04:002008-09-05T16:51:00.000-04:00I'm sorry for your losses. It saddens me that you ...I'm sorry for your losses. <BR/><BR/>It saddens me that you are forced to defend a decision which is no one else's business and which was so hard to make, yet the only one to make. <BR/>I'm glad you're still around.Lut C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03893061829410958985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-5354616122393669242008-09-05T14:59:00.000-04:002008-09-05T14:59:00.000-04:00Thinking of Matthew.Thinking of Matthew.Rosepetalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11198906406934870970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-11944467396512774682008-09-05T11:09:00.000-04:002008-09-05T11:09:00.000-04:00I missed the day of... but I'm here, hugging you f...I missed the day of... but I'm here, hugging you from afar.decemberbabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04088233282015307702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-58834924913153144662008-09-04T20:35:00.000-04:002008-09-04T20:35:00.000-04:00I wish I had been on yesterday to give you an enor...I wish I had been on yesterday to give you an enormous virtual hug.<BR/><BR/>You've done enough for Matthew, and will continue to every day. You've been a wonderful mother to him, as you are to all your children. <BR/><BR/>Much love to you all.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03887313952590843057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-25319761213742692912008-09-04T16:19:00.000-04:002008-09-04T16:19:00.000-04:00Found your blog from another, my heart goes out to...Found your blog from another, my heart goes out to you!! I lost Anthony Douglas on 2-10-05 due to his frontal lobes not developing, I was just about 21-22 weeks, and I will never forget the high risk OB saying to me after he told me that the best thing we could do was terminate and I said so I could still terminate the pregnancy (I realize now he has just said that but my brain was in well rather a huge fog)he said "well in Maine as far as I know it is still legal to terminate a pregnancy at this point" why this sticks with me I don't know, but thank god!! Because like you I could have died, I have not had anymore children, I have one live daughter who is 6, this broke my husband and my future together in a way I don't think even I understand. We have since divorced. Sometime I will tell you my story, I just don't think this is the right post to do it.<BR/><BR/>HUGS!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-32687707402282932622008-09-04T14:28:00.000-04:002008-09-04T14:28:00.000-04:00Thinking of you and Matthew....Thinking of you and Matthew....katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-76290327433738517762008-09-04T13:26:00.000-04:002008-09-04T13:26:00.000-04:00thinking about you, sweetie.thinking about you, sweetie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-10493449241386129672008-09-04T02:38:00.000-04:002008-09-04T02:38:00.000-04:00I'm glad you have lots of happy things to think ab...I'm glad you have lots of happy things to think about today too - and I realize it doesn't take away the sadness. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you.Rachel Inbarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06605780418673759318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-20371334076224432192008-09-03T22:20:00.000-04:002008-09-03T22:20:00.000-04:00I hope that feeding, cuddling, and playing with Ju...I hope that feeding, cuddling, and playing with Julius helped you in some way. Not to forget, of course, but to understand the reality of today.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-48436282917910628702008-09-03T22:11:00.000-04:002008-09-03T22:11:00.000-04:00Thinking of you today.Thinking of you today.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-73414204088144929492008-09-03T21:00:00.000-04:002008-09-03T21:00:00.000-04:00I never thought in a million years I would either....I never thought in a million years I would either. But what really really aches is the fact that the only two choices I had were bad. There was never going to be a good outcome. Lethal prognosis is exactly that. Lethal.<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry this ever has to happen to anyone.<BR/><BR/>xx<BR/><BR/>JGeohdehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084396088622931768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-65167074813031419462008-09-03T19:56:00.000-04:002008-09-03T19:56:00.000-04:00(((hugs)))(((hugs)))Kathy McChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03173765251704625998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-73117491533235806302008-09-03T19:41:00.000-04:002008-09-03T19:41:00.000-04:00Sometimes it is best to have distractions. I hope...Sometimes it is best to have distractions. I hope time makes it easier to deal with, I know it doesn't take it away. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you today especially.Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771351540802344987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-8716520534930470882008-09-03T18:42:00.000-04:002008-09-03T18:42:00.000-04:00Wishing a gentle day for you Aurelia...will be thi...Wishing a gentle day for you Aurelia...will be thinking of you and holding you close to my heart.<BR/><BR/>Remembering Matthew with you...Kerriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12804791418164361209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-13330834873092517972008-09-03T18:40:00.000-04:002008-09-03T18:40:00.000-04:00I revisited all of those posts you linked to and I...I revisited all of those posts you linked to and I think the are some of the most honest and powerful pieces about the reality of choice.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-24559571177614029182008-09-03T18:37:00.000-04:002008-09-03T18:37:00.000-04:00big, big hugs to you today.big, big hugs to you today.JellyBellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12446863670679588932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-60806516653051319852008-09-03T18:28:00.000-04:002008-09-03T18:28:00.000-04:00thinking of you and all your boys.thinking of you and all your boys.moplanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16998309937928231527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-57373672412414283602008-09-03T17:34:00.000-04:002008-09-03T17:34:00.000-04:00I hope the sun is shinning for you today.I hope the sun is shinning for you today.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07135144307292570188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-39868789027955284422008-09-03T17:08:00.000-04:002008-09-03T17:08:00.000-04:00I read your linked posts and can't believe how str...I read your linked posts and can't believe how strong you are to have gone through all that and then kept going. So very sorry for your loss and I agree with your line of how it should be our choice and not anyone else. Bless you. <BR/>Maybe you should run for VP here in the States. ;)Shinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11233585920183280455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-83722127454296258182008-09-03T16:56:00.000-04:002008-09-03T16:56:00.000-04:00Thinking of your family today, Aurelia. Much love...Thinking of your family today, Aurelia. Much love.Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30651776.post-22524418631954266622008-09-03T16:27:00.000-04:002008-09-03T16:27:00.000-04:00I'm sorry. Thinking of you today.I'm sorry. Thinking of you today.Betty Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02106396238018550134noreply@blogger.com